While there is the turn on that is very common to everyone it is also true that people have a turn on about Sex that is particular to them. Some of these might be difficult to discover while others still might also be common and not difficult at all to discover. They are however usually a little more of a Sex turn on than the more common kind. If it is particular to a person then that means it’s got a special hold on their attention that will grab them.
If you are dating and you come across one you can definitely consider it a golden find. It can be just the thing you need to turn that maybe into a positive yes. This could be the thing that gets you that adult encounter you were hoping for. The problem is that sometimes people don’t recognize what they discover and certainly don’t recognize it’s value. Many are very secretive about what really turns them on and they don’t exactly advertise unless they really want the attention. That’s why you might accidentally stumble across it and not even know it because you weren’t able to recognize the signs.
Such a turn on might be touching a certain part of the body such as the back of the neck or the wrist. It might be dressing a certain way or acting in a certain way. The possibilities are unlimited. You’ll have to pay very close attention to the way that casual partner responds to any given stimulus that you use. They’ll also probably be very closed mouth about it unless you hit it right on. Then you can exploit it carefully. The reason you want to explore it carefully is because you don’t want to give off any air that you have them. Don’t ever just assume you’ve got it in the bag because it might rub the person the wrong way. Always pretend that it’s a game or race and it’s move for move.