They say if you’re her friend, you’ll never be anything more than friends with her. Well, I’m here to tell you that’s no the case.
Be the nicest man she’s ever met: when she says something you don’t agree with, don’t agree with her. This doesn’t mean you have to be a prick. Be nice, just don’t be afraid to say no every once in a while. Tease her and put her down lightly. You should feel free to make fun of her funny mistakes, the same way your friends tease you except she is a dating partner. Also, you don’t have to return calls if you’re busy. Don’t be afraid to take your alone time, and she will understand.
Don’t be afraid to be romantic: romance is another trait most guys have. Women love a little romance. Even from their friends. So showing your romantic side will win you brownie points. Remember, the romance should always be for you. As long as your emotional pleasure if the main cause of romance. However, don’t over do it. Little gestures are bigger than big gestures. Also, curb your compliments. When you get the urge to compliment a woman, take a second and stop. Do you want to make her like you? Or do you want to make her feel good?
Make her feel good: Being a nice guy means wanting to make people feel good. Being a weak man means wanting to make people like you. When you’re talking to someone, always ask yourself, “how can I make this person feel good about herself?” Feel free to become interested in people, but if you seem too interested, you may feel like they’ll be annoyed because you want to know so much about them. However, such a thing has never happened. Finally, always compliment and never criticize.
Give her respect: This means you treat her like a lady. This means you want to take things slow and not rush into a sexual situation she may regret later.
Once you get into bed with her: She wants the sex to be special and important and romantic and emotional, and dirty, and kinky, and fun. The greatest gift you can get a woman is bringing her back to your place and inviting her up to watch a move so it seems like the casual sex just happened.
